I did my best not to blubber through the whole ceremony, but when Ember came down the aisle with tears in her eyes... there was nothing I could do. Then I saw her husband had tears in his eyes too.. It was hard to hold my bouquet, her bouquet, and keep my make-up looking good as these ridiculous tears threaten to stream down my face !! :)
It was a perfect day.
Here are some pictures from this weekend:
*NOTE: once the photographer arrived, I stopped taking pictures. Most of my pictures are of the day before and then us getting ready day of. The pictures taken by others are stated as such.*
Her Bridesmaid Luncheon was given by my mother at Neiman Marcus' Zodiac Room Downtown. Followed by a complimentary make up session for her entire bridal party.
Lola with the Bride & Groom


The reception was absolutely breathtaking. Her florist out did herself! It was also the MOST fun! All of a sudden the DJ said there would only be 2 more songs, Kev looked at his watch and it was already 11:45!! The night flew by! We weren't ready for the night to be over, so we went down the street to Boston's and continued the party... :)
*taken by: Sara Rozzell
*taken by: Sara Rozzell
My cousin can totally ROCK the air guitar!
*taken by: Sara Rozzell
*taken by: Gayle Henry
As the Matron-of -Honor, I got to make a speech!! Imagine the speech teacher being excited about that! My main goal was to get through it with out squeaking. I wanted people to be able to understand all the wonderful things I had to say. The night before, I practiced in front of my cousins, Emily & Stevie, and had them crying just sitting in our office. I am proud to say I only had a few moments when I had to pause to hold back the tears... I got through it & I really hope they liked it.
A copy of my toast to the Bride & Groom:
(me & Ember in '97)
For those of you who do not know me, my name is Alyssa and I have known Ember all her life. We are cousins. Our mom’s are sisters, but I have always considered Ember a sister more than a cousin. She was my Maid of Honor and I was so thrilled when she asked me to be hers.
I’ve known that I was going to be giving this toast for quite some time now… 3 and a half years actually. Because when Ember met Josh, we all knew they were meant for one another. It’s a great feeling, knowing that someone you love more than most things in the world has found that person who will love them more than you do.
My mind has been going over all the years that she looked up to me and came to me when she needed advice. We have always been super close. She is the type of person that you don't need to hold back with. She speaks her mind and expects NOTHING less from you. We cheered together... roomed together at camp and eventually lived together the year before I got married. AND I LOVED IT ALL!
I honestly can't believe she's old enough to get married. Sometimes when I look at her, I see the little girl who used to sit on skateboards and ride them down her parent’s driveway with me and her brothers. We actually played Cowboys and Indians. I see the little girl dressed in white lace for her tea party. I see us running together from the lake to the condo out at
When Ember met Josh... I knew he was the one for her. She knew it, he knew it... we all knew it. Everyone who knows them together... knows it. They just mesh so well. The mutual love and respect that they share is out of a fairytale. If there is anyone in the world good enough for my Embo Jo... it's ALT. We are all so lucky to be adding such a great man to our family. To be expanding it even more… And now the Altimus family is stealing Ember away from us for a while to
“If I had to run, if I had to crawl, if I had to swim 100 rivers, just to climb 1000 walls, always know that I will find a way to get to where you are… there’s no place that far…"
I ended the toast joined by our cousins... and we showed the Altimuses just how much we loved them with the gift of our song! Ember started jumping up and down as soon as she knew what we were doing... "Happy Wedding Day to you".. sung off key, at different levels of loudness, and never at the same pitch, tone or insync... The Demarest Way. :)
I love you Embo Jo ALT!
*taken by: Sara Rozzell









































